Friendship Anxiety: What to Do When You're Not in the Same Class Anymore

Having a close friend in class makes everything better — complicated lectures feel lighter, group projects less stressful, and school lunches more fun. Thus, when the school year starts and your bestie’s not in your class anymore, it’s totally normal to feel:

• A little sad

• A bit anxious

• Maybe even kind of... lost

But here’s the truth: This isn’t the end of your friendship. It’s just a new chapter.

🌟 Two Positive Perspectives You Might Not Have Thought About

1. Space Can Help Friendships Grow

When you’re not together 24/7, you actually get a chance to miss each other — and that can make your friendship stronger. It creates space to build new stories, try new things, and come back with more to share.

“Just because you’re apart doesn’t mean you’re growing apart — you’re growing with space.”

2. You Get to Explore New Parts of Yourself

When you’re always around the same people, it’s easy to play the same role. A new class means new vibes — maybe you find out you love public speaking, or that you’re actually kinda great at science. Being apart from your bestie gives you room to explore without pressure.

“You’re not losing your old self — you’re discovering new layers.”

🛠️ 3 Real Ways to Deal With the Feels (and Stay Close Anyway)

1. Name the Feeling — and Let It Be

Feel weird? Sad? Left out? That’s okay. You don’t need to “tough it out.”
Write it down, text a friend about it, or just say:

“I’m kinda bummed we’re not in the same class this year.”

When you give your feelings a name, they usually get quieter.

2. Set One Weekly Ritual

Staying close doesn’t have to be complicated. Pick one small thing you can count on:

• Sitting together at lunch every Wednesday

• Sending a meme every morning

• FaceTiming after your last class on Fridays

Consistency builds connection — even when time is short.

3. Mix the Old with the New

It’s totally okay to make new friends and keep your old ones. Invite your bestie to join a new group for lunch one day. Or introduce them to your lab partner.
Creating little overlaps can keep things from feeling so separate.

“You’re not choosing one friend over another — you’re choosing to keep your world open.”

Friendship doesn’t need to be in the same room to be real. It just needs attention, care, and efforts. Even if your schedule’s changed, your friendship doesn’t have to.